The Key to Creating Graceful Endings, Transformational Rebirths and Thriving Futures!

Soul Healing Mission:

Soul Healing is the heart-centred coaching and healing sanctuary of Kara Ockendon, founder of Thriving Divorce & Separation. Her mission is to help individuals and couples to consciously navigate divorce, separation and relationship evolutions. She empowers men and women to move through relationship challenges, transitions and post-separation parenting with clarity, compassion, and grace, helping them transform and create thriving future dynamics.

We offer conscious and holistic coaching services that is for everyone who desires to do things differently.

You have a lot more power and control over your experience of your relationship challenges than you may think. You can stagger along a path that sees you and your family barely surviving or you can make the conscious choice to create the landscape that will see you and your family Thrive…

The Choice Is In Yours!

Take the first step to secure your pathway to your families Thriving Future today - Book a Free Next Steps Chat.

Hi, I’m Kara, the heart and soul behind Soul Healing conscious coaching services and the key to unlocking your thriving future!

How Kara Helps:

With a unique professional background and lived experience, Kara brings a rare holistic blend of legal expertise, trauma-informed care, and deep personal insight to her coaching practice in supporting couples and individuals to:

  • Consciously navigate relationship breakdowns and transitions with more clarity, confidence and ease

  • Move through separation/divorce and the Family Law system with grace and minimised negative toll

  • Create new financial and family dynamics that work for you and your unique family and preserve the wellbeing of all

  • Successfully implement Parenting Agreements and improve post separation parenting dynamics

  • Cultivate conscious communication and healthy conflict resolution skills

  • Create deeply fulfilling and healthy relationships rooted in love, compassion and connection

  • Transition from a life in which you are merely surviving, into one in which you flourish and thrive.

Supporting individuals and couples across all relationship dynamics and at all stages of relationship breakdown, from contemplation to well post-separation/divorce. Wherever you are on your journey, Kara is here to help you transform breakdowns into breakthroughs and create healthy, loving, and secure relationships dynamics and a life in which you and those you love THRIVE!

Book your free next steps call today to start thriving as the remarkable soul you are!

EMPOWERING YOU TO CREATE YOUR THRIVING DIVORCE OR SEPARATION , EVEN IN HIGH-CONFLICT DYNAMICS!

”I’m currently navigating a high-conflict Family Court process and it’s been a challenging journey. I have found so much comfort in what Kara offers, especially with her legal background. I used to approach things in a combative, defensive perspective, but since embracing conscious uncoupling, I’ve been able to find my centre and shift my mindset. Things that used to bother me about my co-parent no longer have power over me. Even when treated unfairly, I now approach situations with full authenticity, which has helped break down some barriers between us. At first I had to ‘fake it until you make it’ as being the bigger person felt uncomfortable.

I’ve learned that it only takes one person to calm the waters and create change.”

~ STEPHANIE, COUNSELLOR, BRISBANE ~

“I am 100% grateful for Kara. Her Conscious Uncoupling program liberated my soul. I released so much fear and gained the courage to speak up for what I want and break free from relationship patterns that were keeping me in relationship dynamics that were not serving me, allowing me to part ways with my spouse in a conscious, healthy and compassionate way.”

~ FELICITY, BRISBANE QLD~


They say that “Breaking Up is Hard to Do,” but does it really have to be as devastating  as it often is? According to Kara Ockendon in her new course, The Break-Up Blueprint: Avoiding the Darkside of Love, the answer is NO… there are definitely ways for couples who are breaking up to “navigate the path of least destruction.”

I truly wish Kara’s course had been available back in the days when I was going through some pretty messy break-ups. I have absolutely no doubt that the “uncoupling” process would have been a lot less traumatic for everyone concerned, including the children involved and families on both sides, had at least one of us, and, ideally, both had access to the information and uncoupling skills Kara details. She has applied and integrated her own personal and professional knowledge to Katherine Woodward Thomas’ groundbreaking work on Conscious Uncoupling in a novel way, making her course more relevant to Attachment Theory, and delivered it in a very smooth and easy to understand way.

Highly recommended for anyone in a relationship. Even if you’re not Breaking Up.

~ KERRIE, TEACHER, NANANGO QLD ~

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A 5 MONTH GROUP CONSCIOUS UNCOUPLING COACHING IMMERSION

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