EMPOWERING YOU TO CREATE YOUR THRIVING DIVORCE OR SEPARATION , EVEN IN HIGH-CONFLICT DYNAMICS!

”I’m currently navigating a high-conflict Family Court process and it’s been a challenging journey. I have found so much comfort in what Kara offers, especially with her legal background. I used to approach things in a combative, defensive perspective, but since embracing conscious uncoupling, I’ve been able to find my centre and shift my mindset. Things that used to bother me about my co-parent no longer have power over me. Even when treated unfairly, I now approach situations with full authenticity, which has helped break down some barriers between us. At first I had to ‘fake it until you make it’ as being the bigger person felt uncomfortable.

I’ve learned that it only takes one person to calm the waters and create change.”

~ STEPHANIE, COUNSELLOR, BRISBANE ~

Kara Ockendon - Australia’s first and only certified Conscious Uncoupling™ Coach with professional background as a Family & Divorce Lawyer and Collaborative Family Law training.

Hi, I’m Kara….

The heart and soul behind Soul Healing - Relationship Breakdown & Coaching Services and the key to your unlocking your thriving future.

I am the first certified Conscious Uncoupling™ Coach in Australia with a professional background in Family and Divorce Law, degrees in both Law and Psychological Science, and training in the Collaborative Family Law process and coaching.

Having experienced a high-conflict family court dispute as a child, a stroke at 32, and two of my own marriage breakdowns, the wisdom gained from my own lived journey paired with a decade practising family law, fuels my mission: to help others navigate relationship transitions with clarity, compassion, and confidence that empowers them to create fulfilling lives and relationships amidst the chaos and turmoil.

With my unique professional background and lived experience, I bring a rare holistic blend of legal expertise, trauma-informed care, and deep personal insight to my practice in supporting separating couples and individuals to:

  • Consciously navigate relationship breakdowns with more clarity, confidence and ease

  • Move through separation/divorce and the Family Law system with grace and minimised negative toll

  • Create post separation financial and family dynamics that work for you and your unique family

  • Successfully implement Parenting Agreements and improve post separation parenting dynamics

  • Cultivate conscious communication and healthy conflict resolution skills

  • Create deeply fulfilling and healthy relationships rooted in love, compassion and connection

  • Transition from a life in which you are merely surviving, into one in which you flourish and thrive.

I am dedicated to supporting individuals across all relationship dynamics and at all stages of relationship breakdown, from contemplation to well post-separation/divorce. Wherever you are on your journey, I am here to help you transform breakdowns into breakthroughs and create healthy, loving, and secure relationships dynamics and a life in which you and those you love THRIVE!

Book your free discovery call today to start thriving as the remarkable soul you are!

About Kara Ockendon: LLB, BAPsychSC, Relationship Breakdown and Divorce Coach specialising in the certified Conscious Uncoupling™ process developed by Katherine Woodward-Thomas and supporting individuals to consciously navigate break-ups, divorce and the Family Law system.

EMPOWERING YOU TO CREATE A LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS IN WHICH YOU THRIVE!

“I am 100% grateful for Kara. Her Conscious Uncoupling program liberated my soul. I released so much fear and gained the courage to speak up for what I want and break free from relationship patterns that were keeping me in relationship dynamics that were not serving me, allowing me to part ways with my spouse in a conscious, healthy and compassionate way.”

~ FELICITY, BRISBANE QLD~


They say that “Breaking Up is Hard to Do,” but does it really have to be as devastating  as it often is? According to Kara Ockendon in her new course, The Break-Up Blueprint: Avoiding the Darkside of Love, the answer is NO… there are definitely ways for couples who are breaking up to “navigate the path of least destruction.”

I truly wish Kara’s course had been available back in the days when I was going through some pretty messy break-ups. I have absolutely no doubt that the “uncoupling” process would have been a lot less traumatic for everyone concerned, including the children involved and families on both sides, had at least one of us, and, ideally, both had access to the information and uncoupling skills Kara details. She has applied and integrated her own personal and professional knowledge to Katherine Woodward Thomas’ groundbreaking work on Conscious Uncoupling in a novel way, making her course more relevant to Attachment Theory, and delivered it in a very smooth and easy to understand way.

Highly recommended for anyone in a relationship. Even if you’re not Breaking Up.

~ KERRIE, TEACHER, NANANGO QLD -

CYCLE BREAKERS

A 4 MONTH GROUP CONSCIOUS UNCOUPLING COACHING IMMERSION

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my life’s motto

  • Trust

  • Allow

  • Surrender

  • And Slow the "F" Down

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